time-wasting-thread-memorial/raw/pages/7829.json

{"topics":[{"id":"55ae655c6368724c54001c5b","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae64a96368724d9200014a#post_55ae64a96368724d9200014a\r\nive had that happen a few times with me","author":"4ffbfff37f123b072a01bb5b"},{"id":"55ae66936368727f6c00013b","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae64a96368724d9200014a#post_55ae64a96368724d9200014a\r\nYup.\r\n","author":"50c204917f123b31440000a5"},{"id":"55ae66f96368724d92000442","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae64a96368724d9200014a#post_55ae64a96368724d9200014a\r\nYep.","author":"5446fcfc6368723ec21a0000"},{"id":"55ae68186368727f6c0002d0","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae64a96368724d9200014a#post_55ae64a96368724d9200014a\r\nYes","author":"5239db6da4c72d22d9000358"},{"id":"55ae6a036368724db6000780","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"!http://i198.photobucket.com/albums/aa301/elitewarriorz/Oblivion.png!","author":"37e5b9d66361642500af5e00"},{"id":"55ae6a046368724f86002d67","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae64a96368724d9200014a#post_55ae64a96368724d9200014a\r\nNo.\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nI mean, yes.","author":"4fde01d7945b70057c00024d"},{"id":"55ae6c2d6368725996000390","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"That was a lot of yeses.","author":"5041b54f7f123b77af00a442"},{"id":"55ae6de06368724f8600342c","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae6c2d6368725996000390#post_55ae6c2d6368725996000390\r\nWell, how many 12 years old do you think play games.","author":"5446fcfc6368723ec21a0000"},{"id":"55ae6fed63687269a5000d5d","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"I've been a bit obsessed with Sentai lately. (With a bit of Power rangers on the side.)","author":"5062d6f17f123b3e16001184"},{"id":"55ae70fe6368724f860039a3","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"Whats goin on?","author":"5307a92d6368722c6c0d0100"},{"id":"55ae741b6368724c540034c7","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"!https://41.media.tumblr.com/e5ae9344a2c4d8989a63f3605cf5afc3/tumblr_nrtkcivwGD1s2kojso1_1280.jpg!","author":"5062d6f17f123b3e16001184"},{"id":"55ae785a6368724f8600453b","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"ok now that it's not 3 AM and i didn't just get done playing portal i'm less pissed off than i was last night","author":"53f29d1b6368725f76ba0100"},{"id":"55ae79d96368724c54003e14","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"Guys...I think that I really need your support right now.\r\n\r\nYou know of my boyfriend, right? His father just passed. And it looks like everyone in the world knows it...except him. He's at a play rehearsal right now. _He has no idea._ I haven't stopped sobbing. I really didn't know the guy well, but he was always smiling and happy. None of my friends even knew that he was THIS sick because my boyfriend didn't talk about home much. And above all, I'm just sad. Sad for my boyfriend, sad for his middle brother, sad for the younger brother - only four, I think - who will have a hard time remembering his dad. And I'm _scared._ They're really poor, they can't take the hit of a funeral and a loss of income (as horrible as it sounds for me to speak that way of him). I'm scared that my boyfriend is going to drop out of school to support them, and I'm not even sure if I could blame him if he did. I'm just so scared, guys.","author":"5041b54f7f123b77af00a442"},{"id":"55ae7a446368724f8600480a","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae79d96368724c54003e14#post_55ae79d96368724c54003e14\r\nOh god\r\nI don't know ","author":"4fe3df367f123b517900066a"},{"id":"55ae7a846368725f78002c12","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@mariomarc\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae7a446368724f8600480a#post_55ae7a446368724f8600480a\r\n\r\nIt's fine. I don't know either. \r\n\r\nI keep looking at the clock and counting down until his rehearsal ends. It's making me sick.","author":"5041b54f7f123b77af00a442"},{"id":"55ae7ad36368724c54003f4f","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"Somehow I've been completely lucky by not having to deal with a death\r\n\r\nI seriously qish I could help","author":"4fe3df367f123b517900066a"},{"id":"55ae7b816368722ae2000560","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"Maybe post about in the vent thread as well\r\nMaybe someone in there can give some advice ","author":"4fe3df367f123b517900066a"},{"id":"55ae7bcb6368724f86004a51","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@mariomarc\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae7ad36368724c54003f4f#post_55ae7ad36368724c54003f4f\r\n\r\nI've dealt with death before. My grandparents, an old friend (I will never forget my friend calling me to say that she had committed suicide), and now this. I know that it'll get better with time, as I've learned, but for now...it's just horrendous.\r\n\r\n\"@mariomarc\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae7b816368722ae2000560#post_55ae7b816368722ae2000560\r\n\r\nI did, but honestly, since you guys are my friends...","author":"5041b54f7f123b77af00a442"},{"id":"55ae7c3e6368722ae2000651","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae7a846368725f78002c12#post_55ae7a846368725f78002c12\r\nI'm not good with stuff like this but I personally think At a time like this, the best you and everyone can do is be supportive. \r\n\r\nHelp out as much as you can and be there for him. With you both by each others side you'll make it through this. Even as tough as it may be just stick together and be there for one another. \r\n\r\nStay strong, If you need to talk we're here for you guys. ","author":"50c204917f123b31440000a5"},{"id":"55ae7c866368724bea0004d7","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae79d96368724c54003e14#post_55ae79d96368724c54003e14\r\nNormally this is when I'd pop in and give some sage advice. But I got nothing,","author":"4fde4618945b700aa0002fff"},{"id":"55ae7cb96368722ae2000713","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@Number1pegasus\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae7c3e6368722ae2000651#post_55ae7c3e6368722ae2000651\r\n\r\nThe problem is, my boyfriend tends to do the exact opposite - bury the problem and pretend nothing is wrong. It's the reason why we didn't know how sick his dad was in the first place. Hell, we _still_ don't know what he was sick with. If we press into him, he'll only retreat further. It's tricky. I'm going to try, of course, but I don't want him to get pissed at me in a delicate time like this.\r\n\r\n\"@SquiggyBomb\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae7c866368724bea0004d7#post_55ae7c866368724bea0004d7\r\n\r\nI'm just happy that you acknowledged my post.","author":"5041b54f7f123b77af00a442"},{"id":"55ae7d5b6368724c54004323","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae7cb96368722ae2000713#post_55ae7cb96368722ae2000713\r\nTry sharing your tough times with him.\r\n\r\nHave an open discussions of rough times you had. Take a trip down memory lane if you will.\r\n\r\nMaybe talking about past events will help him open up to you guys. Since He would feel that he is not alone.","author":"50c204917f123b31440000a5"},{"id":"55ae7d706368722ae2000813","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"I was going to start posting some sentai pics. But I feel that now is not the time.","author":"5062d6f17f123b3e16001184"},{"id":"55ae7d846368722418002bb0","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae79d96368724c54003e14#post_55ae79d96368724c54003e14\r\ni cant really say anything but rip to your boyfriends dad and hope you guys have a good future and all","author":"4ffbfff37f123b072a01bb5b"},{"id":"55ae7db96368722418002c0c","topic_id":"5161dd617f123bd25900013d","body":"\"@And Brother I Hurt People\":/dis/the-time-wasting-thread/post/55ae79d96368724c54003e14#post_55ae79d96368724c54003e14\r\n...damn, I have no idea what to say.\r\nI wish I could help, but I really don't have much experience with this type of situation. The only family death I've really experienced was my paternal grandfather, but admittedly I wasn't actually that close to him so it didn't hit me as hard as it probably should've (which I hate to say but it's true).\r\n\r\nAll I can really do is stick to cliché and say that you should try to help to support your boyfriend and his family (financially and emotionally, if possible), and be there when they need you.","author":"53f29d1b6368725f76ba0100"}]}