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title: "Was Social Media a Mistake?"
date: 2021-01-26
tags:
- philosophy
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# Was Social Media a Mistake?
Subjective Opinions Ahead
This entire post is a big pile of opinions. Please feel free to skip this one if
you don't want to hear it. It says so in the footer of each page, but I want to
emphasize that these opinions are my own and not that of my employers (past,
current or future). This is my subjective opinion. I cannot be unbiased about
this topic (though I also doubt that anyone who has experienced it can be), so
instead of trying to pretend to be unbiased in this article I'm just going to
let the words out.
I also don't really have any solution to propose in this article. This is a
problem that is way bigger than a single shitposter like me can really handle on
their own. I am one person among an unfathomably large crowd. If this makes you
think, then I have done my job.
Buckle up, I'm doing a philosophy.
> It is difficult
> to get the news from poems
> yet men die miserably every day
> for lack
> of what is found there.
- [Asphodel, That Greeny Flower](https://poets.org/poem/asphodel-greeny-flower-excerpt) (William Carlos Williams)
Traditionally, getting your message in front of thousands or millions of people
required you to be a public figure working for a media company. The idea of a
self-service tool for individuals to get a message out to anyone who cared to
read it was expensive, and usually limited to small areas due to the expense of
mailing things. [In the late
1960's](https://www.history.com/news/who-invented-the-internet),
[ARPANET](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ARPANET) was created by the US
Department of Defense as a project to enable remote access to computers over the
existing phone network. Some of the first services that were created are
constants even today: remote login, file transfer and email. After a decade of
experimentation, the National Science Foundation funded the installation of
supercomputers at a few universities and provided connectivity between them.
Ordinary people wanted to hook into these supercomputers and the internet as we
know it today blossomed forth.
With this new network it was easier than ever to get your message out to the
world, all you needed to do was install expensive hardware, an expensive type of
phone line and potentially custom software to serve your message over a protocol
such as [Gopher](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gopher_(protocol)). Or, you could
just lease space from someone else who had set all this up. During this time
everything was a bit experimental. Everything was quirky. Personality and flair
oozed from the edges of every handcrafted page you set your eyes on. Of course,
making those pages was an art in its own right.
These bursts of creativity gave people ideas, and as time progressed, companies
formed around the idea of making it easier to let people get their message out
to the internet via their servers. Geocites, Livejournal, Blogger, Wordpress,
Tumblr, Twitter, Facebook, Orkut and others formed to help people communicate.
Facebook became larger than most countries. Twitter became the communications
media of choice for global superpowers. Wordpress became one of the biggest
attack vectors on the internet. Geocites lived, died and was reborn. The
survivors were branded "social media". Social media forms the backbone of a lot
of our modern culture. You probably got the link to this article from some form
of social media.
> "Glum, Marc, glum" The clap on the shoulder made him start, look up. It was
> that brute Henry Foster. "What you need is a gramme of soma. All the
> advantages of Christianity and alcohol; none of their defects".
- Brave New World (Aldous Huxley), Location 672-674
And through all of it people got their messages out. Entire social movements
were formed on the backs of those messages. Without those messages, I probably
would not exist in the way that I currently do. Those messages have changed me
and likely have changed _countless_ other people too.
So, now that we have everyone communicating so openly, freely and to mass
audiences, what are the societal consequences? A country divided. Left and
right, red and blue, messages of love twisted into messages of hate, divisions
across cultural and ideological boundaries. Has it all really been worth it? Is
the ability to communicate so quickly so far really a net benefit for us all?
- [Duck or Rabbit?](https://www.newyorker.com/cartoon/a18662) - Paul Noth
Has it really been worth destroying families in its wake?
What about those with chronic anxiety disorders or other similar things?
There's a good word for what happens as a result of this:
[doomscrolling](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doomscrolling).
To put it lightly, 2020 has not been a year with much in the "good news"
department. A global pandemic separated people. Conventions were cancelled.
Travel became all but impossible. We had the ability and foresight to see it
coming but we still fucked it up.
> come on brain make the happy chemical you lump of fuck
- [housewive#1](https://twitter.com/heebiejeebis/status/1123236591755874304)
Sex sells movies, but doom sells newspapers. And on social media, negative
articles perform better. Doom makes people afraid. Fear makes people angry.
Anger makes people react. Reactions drive engagement. Engagement makes the
algorithm put that article in front of more people so it can make the anger
happen all over again.
> Fear is the path to the dark side.
> Fear leads to anger.
> Anger leads to hate.
> Hate leads to suffering.
> I sense much fear in you.
- Yoda, The Phantom Menace
Is The Algorithm to blame? People talk about The Algorithm like it's some kind
of benevolent god that gives them the happy chemical sometimes. How does what
The Algorithm optimizes for have effects on society at large? By putting posts
that are bound to cause engagement (basically reactions) in front of the largest
audience possible, how does this affect people? How does this affect their
worldviews? How does this affect how people percieve what is true and what is
false?
One of the biggest hits that social media has done to our world is that it's
made truth become a relative thing instead of an objective thing. Take the
recent 2020 election for example. There are people who believe that Donald Trump
objectively won the election, despite all of the other correlating evidence that
leads others to conclude the exact opposite. This seems confusing at first. To
become the president you need to win the election. To win the election you need
more electoral votes. Joe Biden got more electoral votes, therefore Biden won
the election, therefore Joe Biden is the new president of the US.
But these [alternative facts](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VSrEEDQgFc8)
persist. Thanks to idiologies such as QAnon, these views flourish. Thanks to
social media, they have places to communicate, re-interpret and plan. Where does
the responsibility of individuals end and the responsibility of platforms begin?
> Each individual must know them self to be free of all forms of external
> reliance. This is not to imply that one should not trust others or band
> together in alliances of friendship and community. It is simply a warning that
> relative truth is constantly shifting in the hands of those who desire to
> control, and even though their motives may be of good will, it is still a form
> of control.
- [The Shifting Models of Existence](https://wingmakers.com/writings/philosophy/chambertwo/) (WingMakers)
Are we really all that different? We're all human. We are all limited. What real
benefit do we reap by this separation? What do we gain by letting us get so
divided that we can't realistically see the chasm being bridged?
Can this chasm be bridged?
What of the ruined lives in the wake?
Without social media though, my best friends would be unknown to me (if they
even ended up existing). My fiance would be a stranger to me. This blog likely
wouldn't exist in its current form. I would have never questioned my gender. I
would have never done all of the things that have lead me to be the person I am
today. I would not have the job I have today. I would not have the career I have
today (early in my career, networking over slack and IRC while delivering pizzas
is literally how I got my break into the industry). Social media is how I keep
in touch with my family. To put it simply, social media's proliferation is a
good part of how I managed to become the self-realized nonbinary person I am.
Without it existing I would be a vastly different person.
It makes me wonder how others are affected like I have been. How many would come
out as transgender without knowing the concept exists? How many would feel safe
to speak out against taboos without spaces to explore what taboos even are?
Is it the _implementation_ of social media that is flawed or is it the _concept_
that is flawed?
According to [this post by Boston University's College of
Communication](https://sites.bu.edu/cmcs/2017/11/16/printing-press-digital-age-and-social-movements/)
human communication has had three major phases of development:
- Oral Tradition
- Literacy/Books/Print Media
- Electronic Communication/Social Media
We are just on the cusp of the last phase beginning, from a grander history
scale that is. The age of literacy and print media lasted for at least
_thousands_ of years. Social media and the interet has existed for 50 years by
the most liberal estimates. Maybe this is one of those cases where large changes
in these models cause outright societal chaos _because_ it exposes the biases
that we've already had for so long. Are things chaotic because of the change or
is the change making things chaotic?
Just because we can get Uncle Bob's hot takes on the geopolitical state of
affairs between the US and Canada, does that mean we _should_? How do we know
what's more accurate: memes shared in parenting groups or news articles behind
paywalls? Why is it easier to get junk food than it is to get healthy things?
This [post on
/r/starslatecodex](https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/9rvroo/most_of_what_you_read_on_the_internet_is_written/)
comes to mind. Its main thesis (that it does an admittedly poor job defending)
is that most of what you read on the internet is written by a tiny fraction of
people that don't represent the rest very well. If you've run communities in the
past I'm sure you are familiar with the power laws at play:
- 90% of people lurk and contribute only spairingly
- 9% of people actively contribute to discussions or create new one
- 1% of people seemingly have no other social life outside that community
Those top 10% of contributors are either somewhat sensible people (in rare
cases) or more than likely not representative of rest that just passively lurk.
We can see these patterns arise in other places too. Most people that read books
consume them without contributing to discussions about them. Even fewer people
are authors. Fewer are prolific authors. Politics (via voting rates), recipe
groups, even multi-level marketing scams fall into these power rules.
Is this power rule something that is just natural for humans?
Was social media a mistake or could it actually end up being a net benefit like
the printing press turned out to be? What societal changes will we need to make
as a result of everyone being able to contact everyone else with the touch of a
button?
> This discovery of yours will create forgetfulness in the learners’ souls,
> because they will not use their memories; they will trust to the external
> written characters and not remember of themselves.
>
> The specific which you have discovered is an aid not to memory, but to
> reminiscence, and you give your disciples not truth, but only the semblance of
> truth; they will be hearers of many things and will have learned nothing; they
> will appear to be omniscient and will generally know nothing; they will be
> tiresome company, having the show of wisdom without the reality.
- Socrates, commenting on writing and literacy
The printing press changed so much because it made books available to the
masses. Before the advent of the printing press, making a book could literally
take a trained scribe decades. As such they were so expensive that only the
elite could afford them. The printing press made it easy for the masses to be
able to have books of their own. Not to mention it also made it easy for authors
and writers to create books too. Without a lot of these stories, a good chunk of
our culture would not exist. However at the same time because it was so easy to
churn out print media (compared to hiring a scribe for years, etc) the printing
press had real societal consquences. The renaissance was spread on the back of
the printing press. Christianity spread as a result of the printing press making
it so easy to print out bibles. Public libraries came into existence, changing
how books were used as a fundamental resource.
Is social media the new printing press? If so, what impact will it end up having
on us all?
---
I don't know the answers to a lot of these questions. I don't know if they can
be answered today. I don't know if it is possible to answer these questions. But
damn if they don't make me think a lot. There is just so much ground to cover
when you're talking about something like this that encompasses just about
_everything_. These are complicated questions. There are a billion moving parts.
However, I think that if our society survives long enough to see it, social
media will end up becoming central to our lives in ways that we can't even imagine.