i'm horrible at following my own rules

src/coming-out-plural.md

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-# On Coming Out as Plural
+## On Coming Out as Plural
 
 Intro Edit: I wrote this originally as a reply, but the more I wrote, the more I
 felt there may be many people wondering the same thing, who may need to hear a
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 Now then, here are some things to do when actually coming out:
 
-## Approach One: Warming them Up
+### Approach One: Warming them Up
 
 This is maybe more an assessment of their open mindedness, and its basically
 the slow and safer approach. This is the approach you want to use for close
@@ -99,7 +99,7 @@ that however you want, or even segway into our second approach. Of course, if at
 any point before you come out you get the sense that they would not be
 receptive, this allows you the option to retreat before coming out.
 
-## Approach Two: The Upfront
+### Approach Two: The Upfront
 
 This approach is, if you'd pardon the language, the very much 'balls to the
 walls' sort of approach, unless you have preceded it with the former. This is
@@ -111,7 +111,7 @@ them, or include it in your introduction if you are first meeting them.
 Informally being just state it blatantly, off hand, in text, and let the
 questions come later or after. There is of course, no retreat to this.
 
-## Approach Three: Passively Out
+### Approach Three: Passively Out
 
 In a word? Be openly plural. This is again, something I feel like we've
 exclusively done with strangers online. Talk about your system life and tulpas
@@ -125,7 +125,7 @@ could stop and pass it off as a joke or you just acting weird.
 But above all. Above EVERYTHING included here, in all the assessments of
 receptiveness, above any way you choose to approach the situation.
 
-## BE INFORMATIVE.
+### BE INFORMATIVE.
 
 Know EXACTLY what you are talking about, and how to explain your experience. It
 helps to know about DID so you can explain exactly why you are different from